Thursday, June 14, 2007

practice

I am going to practice all day today. I have a few things that I need to work out to get right. I also want to say that I have been busy and my strength is not as good as I would like it to be now.

We have a pole dance class around here and I have not been in about 3 weeks. I want to sign up for a one month unlimited calls which is $79.00 but if I plan it out right then it will be just right for me. I think that it will be good for me...I need the extra practice and my pole now is so close to my bed that I am limited in what I can do.

I have also noticed on a lot of the forums that I am on and a few blogs that I have read that pole dancing in wonderful for housewives but they are not like strippes in any way. Can I just say that in America I have noticed that there is so much prejudice about pole dancing. It is ok for a person to dance around a pole and it is fun and makes them feel sexy but a strpper is the equvalent to a prostitute. Can I be the one to say that I am so sick of people who say that they are open to new things and don't want people to judge them but they judge others. You really do not know what something is all about until you walk in the other person's shoes.

I can say first hand that when I was dancing I have known girls who danced to get through school, to take care of thier children, to pay for drug habit, or just because. I have seen nasty girls who will do anything for money (and very little money) and I have seen girls who will not even give a lap dance (no touching boys). Can I also say that these women who are so worried about thier husbands going to the strip clubs have no chance of being with a "stripper" also there are a lot of the girls that I worked with that would not date a guy anyways. I was put into my situation because my daughters father was not providing for us the way that he should have so I had to make a tough decision...make $5.00 and not make the rent and maybe get to eat every other day or work at a club. It took me awhile before I made that choice and it was not an easy choice. I made sacrifices and I learned from the choices that I made. If you were to meet me on the streets or at work you would NEVER guess that I worked at a club...so how can you judge something that you know nothing about? Just something to think about.

This blog is for my rants about working at a club and how strippers a viewed I want to bring my story out. I also want to write about my pole dance experience. I have always loved to dance and I love to dance sexy and pole dancing gives that to me along with floor and lap dancing. I guess you can say that you can take polechick out of the strip club but you can't take the strip club out of polechick.

6 comments:

Glamourpuss said...

When I started blogging, a lot of readers couldn't get over the fact that I could have a brain, be articulate, and human, and take my clothes off for money.

I think it's a lot worse in the US than over here, but the stereotype persists.

Puss

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Unknown said...

I know that on our board this has been an uphill struggle, especially lately. I admire you for making some tough decisions that not one of those women who is judging you has ever had to make or could possibly understand. And you know what? Fuck them. If they want to be hypocrites, there's not much you can do other than calling them on it.

Unknown said...

I love this post, and thank you for such a thoughtful, articulate examination of the topic. I am behind you 100%! I also just LOVE when people say pole dancing is anti-feminist. ?!
xoxo
Hurricane Kitty

polechick said...

thanks everyone for your support and comments...it means a lot to me.

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